19.11.07

ADDson#2...update

He sent me a text message to make sure the coast was clear....I have not talked to him since his baby momma called me and told me all of his business...He asked was I still pissed...I told him that I was never pissed, just disappointed. I also told him that his nephew was here.

He comes over looking grungy as ever...(I swear he tries so hard to be white trash) and told me that was getting married in March 08. what the fuck? To who...this white hoe that let you crash on her couch...now you love the bitch and cant live without her? Secondly...what is wrong with her to think that you are a must have? Do you ever plan on doing anything with your life besides leaching off of others? You work 25 hours a week at a coffee shop...how do you plan on being the provider with that? You just asked me for five dollars and you wanna get married? Can you even afford gas to city hall? Wait, you have a baby on the way by another girl. Is this tramp pregnant too? Oh, she has a kid already...how old...6 months? Where is the baby daddy...oh you are going to be the daddy///give me a fucking break....what is that I smell...you? when have you bathed last...why are you scratching? Fleas...okay get out of my bedroom, lets go on the porch to finish this...

These are all things that I wanted to say (some I actually said).. but being the supportive mother I am (hehehehe), I pointed out that he may need to be more financially sound before he fucks up somebody elses life. He said he wanted to go back to school...but time will tell.

Before you get all judgemental on me...this son is 21, and decided early on that he wanted to be a thief and stole my cc when he was 17...YES I prosecuted his ass and he went to juvey...he has pretty much been living on his own since then. He is also the son that wants to be white...not the good wall street white...the trailer trash white.

I don't know what to do except hide my shit when he comes over for Thanksgiving and Defog when he leaves.

A

7 comments:

Jazzy said...

Woooooooooow girl! When I followed Poca's link on over here I was expecting jokes...you definitely got jokes...but wow, there is so much going on.

I feel for you on the son situation. He's 21 though...at this point...all you CAN do is hide your shyt and hope he gets his act together.

Hugz!

ADD mom, wife, sis said...

OP Diva, sorry no jokes...except my life - unfortunately...these stories are true...this is my way of dealing with them, instead of trying to keep it in my head!

thanks for stopping by!

Rashan Jamal said...

damn, fleas? That's crazy. It's good of you to even let him in the house after stealing from you. That's grounds for not being let back in the house right there.

Diva's Thoughts said...

This is wild!!! Be real careful when he comes over.

Miss Snarky Pants said...

Damn...

So much for my bankin' on the theory that the older they get, the wiser they become. SIGH...

Hopefully he gets his act together. Until then, all you can do is continue to love em' from a distance.

ADD mom, wife, sis said...

Love-em from a distance is exactly right!!!! I can do that, I dont need to have the one-on-one physical contact any more? they are grown dammit...I need to let them grow up and make their own mistakes...I miss what we use to have, when they were 8, 10...and thought I was a God and could fix everything...oh well I still have the grands...thanks for your input!

A

Anonymous said...

Yeah you got some stuff going on. I feel your pain. I hope he gets himself together sooner than later...