Cousins, cows tongues and catastrophes

I have 2 cousins that I deal with on the regular. They are twins and are my live, in living color versions of guest on the Jerry Springer show. One (w/cows tongue) has the most vulgar mouth - yes she puts me to shame.

I remember a situation that took place about 13 years ago, like it was yesterday...I went to go pick her up, I had a van and her bad ass kids would not sit down, so I said that I was not going to drive anywhere until she made them sit down - (a seat belt would've been way too much to ask for)...she turned around and told her 3 year daughter "BITCH, sit the fuck down, before I kick you in yo pussy and give you an early period" (**crickets**true story)...

I was so shocked that I just sat there (thinking that instead of taking her to the store, I should've been driving them to CPS). Since then, she has only gotten worse. Her children are 18, 16, 14, 8, 5, 3. They are all by the same guy, who went to prison for 6 years (that's why there was a gap in the children's ages). Anyway, he just put all of them out of the house (that she helped pay for, furnish, and that she never put anything in her name - what a dumbass), so now she and 4 of her kids moved in with her twin and her 4 kids and man.

Every month like clock work, CT calls me for a financial loan...they don't have food - yes she gets 800 month in food stamps - they don't have gas, kids need school supplies, etc...finally today I asked her "Are we fucking, cause if I keep putting money in your pocket, I'm fucking somebody"...she just said EFF U and do you have the money or not.

I don't understand how three adults and 8 kids can co-habitate in a 3 BR house - no basement, attic or nothing. How are you 35 years old and have to share a bed with 3 kids and you say that you are not going to move out until you are in a better place, with new furniture, car, other items, when you are not saving, putting things in lay-a-way, etc...who is she fooling?

This generational dysfunction is just being passed down to her kids as well...they are HEATHENs to the 10th power...I never knew girls could act like they do...they need cages! The lack of discipline is ridiculous.

Is it me, or do you have family that is like this? Please tell me I'm not the only one!!!!!

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