28.11.07

Ahhh, things are getting back to....

I was going to say Normal, but that would be a stretch for me...so I'll say that everybody is gone out of my house...YEAH Baby!

I've decided that my grandson and his dad (ADDson#1) have the same affect on me...I love them and cant wait to see them, but after a day or two...that euphoric feeling turns to "pissed the fuck off". I long for the days of being a grandmother where you can go pick the kid up and take them back home after a few hours or the next morning...with ADD-GB, he lives in another state, so when we get him...its on us 24-7...I don't envy any mama with kids under 16, that shit is work. I put his little ass in daycare when he comes to visit, because I got a routine of sleep, TV, little homework, nap, shower bout 4 pm, read, etc...you get the point...very little time for Barney, Calliou, or whatever the hell that PBS stuff is.

Another reason why I get so exhausted is because his mom has different rules than Ro-Ro....Ro-Ro don't play that talking back, yelling "NO", temper tantrum shit...I only have to remind him a few times where he is at, but by the time he gets with the program, its time to go back to partyville (with his momma)....I love my little Xan-man, but I'm glad he's gone.

I don't think that I've ever blogged about my momma and its for no other reason than I have so much other stuff going on, she gets lost in the shuffle. I love my mommy, she lives on the west coast and I have not seen her since April. I really miss her, not like I missed the aforementioned folks, but in a safe, secure, sitting in her lap kinda way. I love when she visits...she cooks and cleans and hugs me all the time. I guess I'm missing being her little princess....boy those were the days!

My momma is beautiful, funny, smart, sexy and single. My step-dad of 30 + years dies 5 years ago and while I personally don't really give a damn, I know that she gets lonely and she does not deserve that. I also found out (a few years ago) that my momma was a freak when she was younger (hell probably still is)...I'll have to detail that another day.

Sorry nothing good today...I'm tired..and I've got a hot date with Tivo...I might get lucky (that none of my shows were deleted to make space for bullshit).

A

5 comments:

Rashan Jamal said...

I responded to your other post. Sorry for the delay, I was out of pocket for a minute.

Miss Snarky Pants said...

LOL @ "I put his little ass in daycare when he comes to visit, because I got a routine of sleep, TV, little homework, nap, shower bout 4 pm, read, etc...you get the point...very little time for Barney, Calliou, or whatever the hell that PBS stuff is" AND your hot date with Tivo"

Gurl...[I lovez the posts] --- You STAY makin' a sistah laugh. :-)

Hope the night was good to ya.

Jazzy said...

lmao@you "putting his little azz in daycare" during his visit. Too funny!

I know after that you are loving the peace and quiet of an empty house!

ADD mom, wife, sis said...

@Rashaan, thanks for coming through for me (it was worth the wait)

@ Blog Twin - you just wait...you are going to be saying "Gammy baby, where yo momma, oh shes gone, well put on your coat and wait for her by the door" hahaha..I promise.

@Op D, you laughing, so either you have kids and can relate or you dont have kids and this is why...which is it?

CHA CHA said...

no u didnt put the baby in daycare...awww damn. I dont want you tellin us how freaky ya moms was..that might be TMI....nonetheless, Inquiring minds wanna know..LMAO